Is it okay to send her a message?

5 weeks further and still not able to react, connect to a lot of people in my surroundings. Unconsciously I created a bubble and in this there's a small group I talk and socialize. It started with my family, then every week it became a little bit bigger with a few friends and my boss. I get so much kind messages and cards. My colleagues are completely going crazy with presents, it is unbelievable.

Till today i'm still not responding on each whatsapp. I know people will understand, but still it's a little rude, so sorry guys :-). I'm avoiding because I can't answer the questions. People want to know how I am, what is the treatment plan. I do not have the answers yet and telling this a couple times a day will only frustrate and I need the energy to fight.

Should you then stop messaging or send cards if you now someone in your surrounding is dealing with this...hell no, this shit is live mattering, so if you ignore it, you ignore something so vital of that person. Yeah, I know this is inconsistent.